Well, certainly as my partner was him, I should have taken it as a sign to stop.

[She laughs, taking another drag and just about managing not to choke.]

God, though, it was like... he was insulting me when we met, because he didn't immediately realise that I was a woman. And when he found out, it was like someone had flicked a switch, you know? Suddenly he was being all nice to me. I kind of hate that. I must have been really desperate, ugh. I know he was.